How Sextrum Works
Step 1
Answer 30 thoughtful questions — designed by psychologists and inclusive of all identities
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Our AI reflects your patterns of attraction, identity, and emotional energy
Step 3
Receive your Sextrum Insight Card — a private snapshot of your identity spectrum
Step 4
Explore curated resources to continue your journey
Note: Everything is confidential, non-judgmental, and yours alone.
Why Sextrum Exists
- Because who we’re drawn to can change
- Because “straight” and “gay” are just pixels in a vast emotional painting
- Because language helps expression, not limitation
- Because we all deserve to be understood — especially by ourselves
Let’s get curious, not conclusive.
🌈 Ready to Begin?
Guided Questions
We’ll guide you through a series of 30 insightful, judgment-free questions.
Self-Reflection
Your answers help us reflect your orientation, emotional openness, and identity spectrum.
When you think of romantic relationships, what excites you the most?
Feeling emotionally safe
Physical chemistry and intimacy
Shared values and lifestyle
Being truly seen
I'm still figuring this out
(Each question gets a new Gamma slide or card)
Your Sextrum Insight Card
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Emotional Openness
You show strong emotional openness with fluid attraction tendencies.
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Identity Patterns
You lean toward panromantic and demisexual patterns.
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Self-Reflection
Your responses suggest a high level of self-reflection and exploration.
This isn’t a label — it’s a lens. You are free to define and redefine your identity.
Continue Exploring with Sextrum
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“The ABCs of LGBTQIA+” – Gender Spectrum
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“You’re Not Alone” – Podcast by Queerology
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LGBTQ+ Therapy & Peer Groups
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Anonymous reflections from the community
About Sextrum
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We're not here to label you.
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We're here to guide you through self-understanding.
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Sextrum is built by a team of queer creators, therapists, coders, and curious humans — all working to create a space where identity is fluid, reflection is encouraged, and privacy is sacred.
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We don't define you. We help you find the words that do.
Real Journeys, Real Voices
Read anonymized stories from others navigating their sexuality and identity — or share your own.
Every submission is moderated for safety and compassion.
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Nickname
Email
Pronouns (optional)
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